Tuesday 18 February 2014

10 Budget Decorating Tips

As ya'll know, I've been working on our living room lately. Today, I thought I would show you some of the changes I've made and share some of my budget decorating tips I use when trying to max out my little budget.

I'm the first to admit that I make a lot of decorating mistakes, but one thing I am good at is stretching a dollar.
I will make that dollar do the SPLITS.






The last time I blogged about this room was in May of last year (in a very embarrassing post), and quite a few changes have taken place since then. But, just for fun, let's go back to the very beginning and remember what the living room looked like the day we first moved in. 


It was basically a blank canvas. It's changed about a million times since then, and I'm sure it will change again soon. 
Anyone else suffer from compulsive-pillow-swapping-syndrome?

Anyways, here's where we are today. 
The couches, ottoman, and TV are pretty much the only store bought items in this entire room. The rest I've gathered from thrift stores through the past few years.
As I mentioned in my teaser last week, I made a few pillows out of some colorful fabric and spray painted a thrift store tray gold.
And then I just spent a lot of time making stuff and collecting things that I loved.
A bit of Jesse's music gear is in just about every room in this house (he's a man who can play a mean keyboard), but I've decided that his guitars make for great decorating accessories. He doesn't understand this at all, but enjoys the fact that I keep photographing his beloved guitar.
This one's for you, boo.
Some old thrift store end tables were painted a soft white (furniture paint tips found here) and I found a really great blue and white ginger jar at the thrift store for around $7. 
I feel like normal people probably wouldn't get excited over that find, but TRUST, there was excitement in my little frugal heart. It didn't know what to do with itself.
And just to be authentic, no, there are not flowers in my house on a daily basis. Jesse always knows a blog post is about to happen when I bring $3 flowers home from the grocery store. 
It just makes for a prettier picture. :)

Sidenote though: I got that little clear square vase at the Dollar Tree for a buck. I've seen them for $5-10 everywhere else. 
Dollar s-t-r-e-t-c-h-e-d.
And now for my favorite new addition.
I decided to create a gallery wall around the TV.

I think I spent a total of about $30 on the gallery wall, which feels like a major accomplishment since one new frame usually costs $20.
Also, yes, Kevin is back. 
I don't wanna talk about it. 
But, I will. Next week. For now, let's just give him a friendly wave and go about our business.
Moving on.
While mixing metallics used to drive me crazy, it's quickly become something I love. For the gallery wall, I used silver and gold frames. I found a few modern silver frames on clearance at Target, and sourced the rest of the frames from thrift stores. 
Most of the art was handmade or something thrifty.
Here's the gallery wall breakdown.
I made a few abstract pieces of my own using several blue and green paints combined with the amazing gold leaf paint I used here.
I've found that even the most simplistic art looks great when matted and framed.
I also made a large abstract piece of art that was super easy to do, but totally ended up being a favorite.
I framed that piece in a large $2 thrift store frame and just spray painted the mat white. It was originally a muddy orange color, but it was an easy fix.
And see that little gold leaf anchor?
 I made that using the same tips I shared in my gold leaf art tutorial.
I made a gold leaf ampersand, too.
It fits in well with a few thrift store finds...a botanical print (re-framed in a modern frame), a metallic seashell print (kept in the original frame) and an ornate mirror.

And to further my obsession for all things cat, I added a giant jaguar print.

I found it for $4 a couple weeks ago at the thrift store (which I sneak peeked on Instagram) and nearly fainted when I saw it.
And you think I kid. You can also see my little ginger jar and seashell prints that I scored nearby.
It's weird, but I make no apologies for my feline obsession.
To know Cheese and Tootie is to be obsessed with them.
Oh, and those horses? 

 Got 'em from a book. A 99 cent thrift store book.
It was titled 'Careers for Horse Lovers' and provided me with 7 great horse photos and 700 questions.
*One-manhand-per-post quota fulfilled.
As for the mirrors on the gallery wall, those all came from the thrift store, too. I actually found all of these at once, and couldn't pass them up. I gave them all a quick coat of this gold spray paint (affiliate link) before adding them to the gallery wall, as they were originally a little too antique looking.
And that, friends, is the living room. 
So, now that you've seen the latest living room updates, completed for a total of about $100, let's talk about a few ways I stretch my dollars.

Here are my top 10 budget decorating ideas.
#1. Mix and Match.
The key is using a little old and a little new. Find a few great new pieces and fill in the gaps with things you collect over time. In my experience, most of those gaps can be filled with thrift store finds....if you're willing to take the effort to look.
#2. Know where to look.
Over the years, I've scoped out nearly every thrift store in town. Most of them are not great. Several of them are amazing. I check out the amazing ones frequently, as it's a first come first serve situation. My best thrift store tips can be found here. I also frequently search for items on Craigslist (tips here) and spend a few weekends during the summer going to local garage sales and estate sales.
#3. Don't be deterred by the current color of an item.
Once you can look past the current color of an item, your whole little decorating world will change. The possibilities are endless once you understand that it's the shape that matters. You can always Rub n Buff, paint, stain, or spray paint. (Here are some great spray paint tips to get you started.)
#4. Make your own pillows.
I used to waste a lot of money buying pillows. That ended the day I discovered this.
#5. Paint furniture.
This sums up my life. Basically, just go read this.
#6. Update hardware on furniture. 
Even if you paint thrift store furniture, the hardware is usually really outdated. A really easy way to update it is to either replace the hardware all together, or to spray paint it a better color. Either way it makes a huge difference. 
#7. Make your own art.
I don't care how unartistic you think you are. I promise that you can make abstract art. Plus, if you put it in a great frame, it will look like a million bucks. I know this because about 75% of my art is really terrible and if I put it in a matted frame, Jesse usually thinks I bought it. Fact. :)
#8. Pass on the junk, buy the classics.
I've fallen into hoarder-territory several times throughout the years while thrifting. Over time, I've learned that I don't need to purchase every little item I like just because it's a dollar. I've learned the importance of waiting for those really great finds. 
My trick is to ask myself if I will like this 10 years from now. If I have to think about the answer, I need to set it down.
SET. IT. DOWN.
#9. Don't be afraid to fail.
The best part of budget decorating is that it allows you a lot of room for messing up. If you've only spent $50 on that dresser, it's not the end of the world if you ruin it because you got a wild hair to paint it pink. 
#10. Be unique.
This is my favorite tip.
 Be unique. 
In my own little journey, I've found that through limitations comes creativity. When you can't just run to (insert whatever store floats your boat here) and plop down thousands of dollars for new stuff, you're forced to think outside of the box. The minute I stopped being embarrassed about that and actually embraced the fact that I do things differently, my world blossomed. 
And I know yours will, too. 
That's all for today sweet friends. 
Thank you for sharing in my little journey. :)

Monday 10 February 2014

Sheraton hua hin resort &spa,thailand

Though Romana and Chandru's families have known each other since a long time, it was Facebook that brought the duo together. Romana was raised in Sydney, and Chandru lives in Guam where he runs his own business. Says Romana: "I started chatting with Chandru's mother on Facebook five years ago, and she suggested I get in touch with her three children. Once I added all of them, Chandru and I started talking on Facebook chat, and then we soon began speaking on the phone and on Skype. Shortly after, Chandru flew in to Sydney to meet me, and that's when it all started! On July 26 2012 ,my family and I flew in to Guam for our Engagement ceremony."


Wedding Venue
The couple considered a few destinations, including Goa, Langkawi, Cebu and Bali before settling on Sheraton, Hua Hin, Thailand. They felt Hua Hin would be the most central location for their guests from around the world. Also, Romana had attended a wedding at Sheraton, Hua Hin and she felt the venue is perfect for Indian weddings. She says: "The resort is beautiful, the ballroom is big, the staff was friendly and well-trained, and the hotel had all the facilities that we were looking for."


Wedding Planning
The families hired the services of Bangkok based Wedding Planners Pink Palki to manage the wedding. Says Romana: "Since both our families live outside Thailand, Wedding Planning was a lot less stress-free thanks to the Bangkok based planners."


Wedding Shopping
Romana traveled to different cities in India for her wedding shopping, Mumbai for jewelry purchases, Delhi for her wedding wear and Jaipur for souvenirs and Mehendi giveaways. She states, "Delhi's DLF Emporio Mall had a lot of talented designers under one roof. I recall my wedding lehenga took me ages to find because I was very picky, and I was looking for something in the typical 'sindoor' shade of red. I happened to stumble upon a beautiful creation at Kimaya, and I knew it was the one."


Wedding Functions
The wedding festivities commenced with a casual welcome lunch on the first day, followed by an 'Arabian Nights' theme welcome dinner and engagement ceremony at night. The second day was event-packed with the thread ceremony in the morning and a tropical sunset lunch after which pujas were conducted by both families. The 'Mela' theme mehendi and the sangeet were held in the evening. The 'Mela' was a colorful affair with different food stalls, a matka shot bar and a range of fun activities depicting a typical Indian carnival.





On the third day, the beach wedding ceremony took place in the afternoon and the Reception at night. The Reception was a black tie event where the stage was set white floral arches, Victorian candle stands as centerpieces and a bar resembling the Arc de Triumph. In the foyer, a photo booth was created in the shape of a Cinderella-style carriage where guests received instant photographs as souvenirs.






Wedding Details

Wedding Planner- Pink Palki, Bangkok
Photographer & Videographer- Picture Perfect India
Wedding Invitation Designer- Moor Designs, Hong Kong
Make-up Artist-
Ojas Rajani


Insider tips from wedding planners

Wish you had experts to help you organise your wedding? Done! We spoke to a bunch of D-day pros to come up with your ultimate cheat sheet!

Swati Pandya Sood
Top tip It's important to bee practical and not go overboard on your wedding.
Choose your venue wisely You might have lavish plans to have a farmhouse or palace wedding, but it's always better to opt for a centrally located venue. Traffic can sometimes create havoc for your guests and spoil the fun.
Be the centre of attraction Don't have celebrity performances on the day of your wedding, because it will completely steal your thunder. Keep all such activities for your pre-marriage functions.
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Saurabh Agarwal
Top tip It's smart to have a backup plan when organising.
When planning the wedding Always make a detailed checklist of the things you require. Put down even the smallest detail and refer to it on a daily basis, so that you don't forget anything. Also, regular follow-ups with vendors are a must.
While choosing a venue Never choose a venue without having a confirmed guestlist in hand; you could end up having more people in a small space.

Meher Sarid

Top tip For a smooth wedding, start planning at least six months in advance.
Don't forget the tables and chairs Always pick your venue keeping the number of guests in mind.
And don't forget the furniture. A splace may seem okay at first, but if you're planning a sit-down dinner or any special elements, the space promised to you will appear far too small once the tables and chairs come into the picture.
Be smart when cracking a deal Always read the fine print when deciding on the venue. Sometimes, venues only provide the space and no entertainment cover, which could lead to additional last minute costs. It's wise to ask a lot of questions before booking.

Achint Nag
Top tip Don't be selfish and keep everyone's interests in mind.
Music and MCD don't go hand-in-hand There is a very strict limit on playing loud music outdoors in Delhi after 10pm. Don't assume you'll be able to work it your way and always book an indoor space so the music can go on for longer.
Choose your food wisely Choose a common palate when it comes to cuisine. Remember that there will people from all age groups in your wedding, so pick something everybody would like to eat. There is no point in having very creative, exotic delicacies when a lot of people won't enjoy it.
Never compromise on space It is suggested to not have a partindoor and part-outdoor space. This will scatter your guests and it takes away from the entire fun of the celebration.

Jenifer Mirchandani
Top tip A lot of planning, detailing and effort goes into making a successful wedding, but it's most important to ensure you have fun on your special day.
Make a budget, then stick to it Calculate a rough indicative budget for the wedding and don't budge from it. Not doing so could increase your costs by upto 50 percent!
Remember, that there will always be last-minute stress No matter how meticulously you plan your wedding, there will always be last minute pressure. Be relaxed and calm about it, and don't let it take away from the fact that this is ultimately about your marriage, not just one wedding night.

Rakhi Kankaria
Top tip Meet all your co-ordinators and vendors beforehand to avoid last minute issues.
Be prepared for extra guests A wedding is a gala affair in our country. So invariably you will end up having more people than you have on your guestlist. Always make arrangements for about 30 percent more people than you have invited to avoid hassles.
Plan, plan, plan Plan and visualise every inch of your wedding. Don't have a vague plan like 'I want a grand wedding'; get into specifics and be sure of exactly what you want.

Jai Raj Gupta

Top tip Once you have a plan in place, work backwards.
Check twice before finalising a package deal Instead of taking combined packages, focus on the core competencies of the service provider and work only with his strengths.The best florist in the country might not give you the best food too.
Always check the entire menu When deciding on the menu, check each and everything. You might have a great main course, but really sub-standard starters and desserts.
Take the DCE approach Your decor, catering and entertainment account for about 70 percent of your total budget. So lock money for this first, then work around with the balance.

Gurleen M Puri

Top tip The perfect wedding needs presence of mind and nerves of steel.
Be well-informed Get as much information as you can beforehand by meeting professionals, reading from magazines and books, as well as scouting the Internetpre-plan everything so that you can get the best products and services at the best price available.
Do not be too adventurous Don't go overboard in trying to be different and out of the ordinary. Don't think too out-of-the-boxit's nice to do things differently, but that also entails a lot more effort and explaining to vendors since this may be the first time they've heard of your concept.

Neeta Raheja
Top tip This is going to be the biggest day of your life, so remember to enjoy it.
Plan wisely Make a countdown calendar that lists items that should be taken care of month-wise. Start filling it up as you move along. This will help you prioritise your responsibilities, as well as those of your family and friends.
Divide responsibility Even if you are a perfectionist who likes to do everything yourself, you don't want to be the bride who is SMSing the pandit to check if he's on his way even as you are sitting at the mandap! If you have a wedding planner to handle your wedding, it's wonderful; if not, make sure family and friends are given specific tasks so that everyone can work towards a common goal.

Geeta Samuel
Top tip Planning really is the secret to perfection.
Be realistic about your goals Planning a wedding is a huge project. It's about concept menus, about decor that far exceeds the precincts of normal imagination, and trousseaus that take months of painstaking exploring and acquiring. So ensure that you start planning well in advance.
Book people in advance Book the concerned peoplemakeup pros, performersin advance for everything, so that you don't have to compromise on your dreams. Execute everything as it comes to your mind.

Wednesday 5 February 2014

Entertainment ideas for a budget wedding

Entertainment ideas for a budget wedding
Does a budget wedding call for putting a full-stop to the entertainment factor? You may not have an A-Lister Bollywood star jiving at your guests or exotic dancers shaking their bellies. But who cares? A wedding must be a fun-filled event where guests are not bored. Bigindianwedding.com brings to you some of the best pocket-friendly entertainment ideas for your memorabilia. 

Retell your story
We do not mean that you, in your heavy lehenga, with your groom jump around in the stage. Ask two of your acting-crazy friends/cousins to prepare a short skit retelling the love story to the guests. With some quirky dialogues peppered with a few songs, we bet your audience would love it to bits. 

Apni Lata
Well of course, Lata Mangeshkar is ours! But every family has their own Lata's and Sonu Nigam's. Your wedding can prove to be their Indian Idol stage. Of course, a little prior rehearsing would be necessary on their part. Impromptu jigs by your guests should also be made welcome. 

Shake that biscuit, baby
Come on, you needn't be a trained dancer. Play some foot-tapping number and see your dance floor getting crazier by the minute. From your friend's hip-hop steps to your granny's old school moves, you will see it all. Trust us, any day better than choreographed performances!

Karaoke corner
Very popular these days, mark a territory in your venue for the karaoke fun. Let your guests take part either in groups or individually. Add to the fun by choosing songs which have been your all-time favorites or better still, choose hilarious/raunchy/'cheap' numbers that won't annoy/embarrass anyone. 

Mini photo-booth
This one's for keeps. Have a small corner marked for this activity. Request one/two of those photography-savvy relatives to capture candid shots of your guests. Either present a copy to the guests immediately or courier them later as a mark of thanksgiving. Seriously, better than those forced poses!

Hunting for treasure
A budget wedding would most definitely mean limited guests. Why not engage them into some games? Like a treasure hunt (sort of)? Read out a list of items. The first person/group who manages the feat can be rewarded with a special photograph with the bride and groom, or a small gift. What say?  

Open mic
Let the gates open! No, we are not asking you to let wedding-crashers in. We mean pass around a mic among the guests and ask them to narrate anything that comes to their mind, say for instance, the first time they met you, some old silly fight, heartfelt wishes for your future and the likes. Guaranteed fun!

All the above said options (and many more that you can think of) do not need a heavy pocket. A budget wedding does not equate to a no-fun wedding. Remember, it's all in the minds. With a little creativity on your part and some help from family and friends, you can have unbridled fun! Put on your thinking hats folks and see the wonders popping out!

Few expenses a bride can avoid

Few expenses a bride can avoid
Unnecessary expenses or in other words, splurging is what most brides end up doing on their wedding. Yes, we understand it is your wedding but why spend on unnecessary elements when the same money can be used for something much better! Especially if you are on a limited budget, it is best advised that you spend wisely and live to enjoy the wedding of your dreams. 

Bridal attire
It goes without a saying that 95 percent of brides are not going to wear their wedding lehenga ever again in their lives. For one single night, you are willing to spend half of your entire wedding budget? Not a smart move! Ditch the designer label; instead research through magazines, browse the Internet for the perfect dress and explain it to your trusted tailor or a budding designer friend. Bet us, you will look like a diva nonetheless. There are other easier routes too, like buying during the sale season, purchasing from an online store and the likes. Options are varied, you just need to smell it right.

Counter tip: Splurge on sexy lingerie instead! 

Makeup
The one thing that drives every bride crazy is how to look the best on her D-day. And no one can deny the significance of makeup in this. And lo! Every blush, mascara, lipstick, nail color available in the market finds a mention on the wish-list. Come on, it's a complete wastage of resources. Always buy your makeup once your attire is decided. Secondly, buy items that you are going to use even after your wedding. Finally, no amount of makeup can match up to the effects of a healthy diet and regular exercising. You will all agree that a natural, supple glow always takes the upper-hand. 

Counter tip: Take aid of your grandma's beauty secrets like haldi, uptan and besan. 

Jewelry
People say that buying jewelry is the best form of investment and we completely agree. But having said that, what is the point of buying redundant pieces just for the sake of investment? Instead of buying every piece that looks beautiful, remember that classics never go out of fashion. Invest in jewelry that is both timeless yet handy. You might like an alligator-shaped choker and we can safely say that it will guarantee you numberless stares. But 20 years down the line, nature-inspired jewelry may not seem so trendy. A diamond choker, on the other hand, would stand the test of time. Think wisely!

Counter tip: Dig into your mother's trunk. Heirloom pieces always steal the show. 

Footwear
Ah, those dainty little feet of yours need pretty footwear to match the attire. In fact, many brides ignore footwear till the last minute which results in over-spending, mostly in hideous golden heels which are  never touched again. Buying your footwear should be considered around the same time when you are buying your bridal attire. Your wedding entails long hours, constant action and little rest. Choose comfortable sandals/shoes that won't leave your feet hurt. Indian weddings mean bling. It however does not give you freedom to buy the gaudiest of footwear. Buy sensibly so that you can wear it in future.

Counter tip: We suggest you buy 4-5 kinds of essential 'evergreen' footwear instead of one golden one.

Budget Wedding: Tips to Save Money on your Wedding

Budget Wedding: Tips to Save Money on your Wedding
Intimate or large-scale weddings, they are expensive. Given the ever rising rate of inflation, quite honestly there is no such thing as an inexpensive wedding.  However, after researching and questioning a lot of married couples and those in the wedding industry, Bigindianwedding.com has come up with plenty of tips, which can actually save you lots of money. All the ideas presented here are based on a single premise: understanding the difference between what is really needed and what can easily be done without.

Budget and Prioritize
  1. Allocate a certain amount as your wedding budget. Stick to it.
  2. Do not saddle yourself with a personal loan.
  3. Don’t get carried away simply because your relative had a grand wedding.
  4. Discuss with your fiancé and contribute towards your own wedding.
  5. Just because daddy is paying, don’t add excess to his bills.
Venue
  1. Opt for getting married in community centers, wedding halls or even a friend’s farm house.
  2. Bargain the use of a bridal suite for a discount.
  3. Ensure that the venue is just perfect for the number of guest invited.
  4. If you have no religious or family constraints, get married off-season.
  5. Book your venue months in advance.
  6. Celebrate more than one event in the venue, this way you can get a discount too.
  7. Holding your ceremony and reception in the same venue will save you vendor services travelling time and supplies transportation (décor and catering).
Reception
  1. Trim the guest list.
  2. Follow the wedding with a reception, so you don’t have to cater for two separate celebrations.
  3. Intimate weddings are a rage.
  4. Let your guest park their own vehicles, valet parking cost more.
  5. For a reception of less than a 100 people, skip the podium where you would sit. Mingle with crowd. Save cost on its décor.
  6. Avoid using the baghis, palkis, horses and elephants, your own well decorated car to ferry the bride/groom is also good enough.
Décor
  1. A large number of ornate centerpieces are a waste of money.
  2. Make use of in-season flowers and stick to just one or two kinds of flowers.
  3. Use more foliage than expensive, exotic flowers.
  4. Avoid excessive lighting.
  5. Ask for simple, yet elegant table and chair covers. Too many frills and laces equal to too much money.
Food and Drink
  1. Hire a caterer that supplies everything you need from waiters, bartenders, plates, glassware, table cloths, napkins, table décor, cutlery, etc, and is part of package deal. 
  2. Serve soft drinks, juices, wine and signature drinks rather than hard liquor.
  3. A champagne toast is not needed.
  4. Restrict the number of appetizers served to 4-5.
  5. Set up 2-3 types of stalls of inexpensive, but hygienic street food.
  6. Stick to serving dishes that everyone is familiar with. Avoid fancy and exotic menus.
  7. Buffets generally cost a good deal less than individual servings.
  8. Avoid serving too many types of cuisine.
  9. Get a small one or two-tiered cake.
  10. Adult and children have a different price rate per plate, negotiate that with the caterer.
Wedding Attire
  1. Check out grandma’s wardrobe for some traditional wear.
  2. Keep your eye open for discounts and sales.
  3. Don’t be hesitant to visit the old markets of the city.
  4. Design your own clothes.
  5. Don’t horde; fashion and styles change every season.
Invitations and Favours
  1. Make use of single page cards.
  2. Avoid bulky ornate invites.
  3. Send out more e-cards than paper cards.
  4. Use the book-post facility to post the cards.
  5. Buy favours in bulk.
  6. One favour, one family.
Other Service Vendors
  1. A small live band will also do.
  2. You don’t really need dancers.
  3. Pre-recorded music is great too.
  4. Hire the same DJ/band for wedding and reception.
  5. Get your photographer and videographer from the same studio